July to July

From July to July..

Such a lovable journey with my loved ones.

Relationship is not about laughing or crying only, but its about sharing the good and the bad.

Many people having their own thoughts about us, our picture on social media and maybe our daily conversation. They said we are lucky to have each other, but some people said one of us is just a distraction from previous break up. well.. Fortunately, we are born to be this happy.

Once, in 2016 .. we are having a random game at Yogyakarta. We've tried to pass the twin Tree at Alun - Alun. I have to put on the shades and walk by intuition to pass those tree, the result? i didn't reach the spot and just walking to the Left side. My Husband result? He walks straight to the Right tree and didn't reach the spot also. The Funny thing is.. when we are bonded together we pass thru the Twin Tree, and we are successful reach the other side of the tree.

So, we are balancing each other.. when my thought is dominating myself to go Left but his thought is dominating himself to go Right. Both of us can do this together with a ton of denial. LOLS.. its fun but can you imagine how to repress your ego? when you cant see anything but you have to trust yourself but you can't.. so you want to let your spouse guide you with his thought.

It's a cheap random game but we do enjoyed the experience and its proven, that my turbulence makes his rigid mindset can be combined. well it's not always a good news but we always try to understand that life is never flat, kayak potato chips.. if its flat than the spice will not stay there, just slide down to another place..

RECEH.. but it's true!

Some of my friend said that they don't want to get busy busy with marriage thingy, its their opinion and i do respect them. but one of them always shouting out that she don't need life partner since she has a super busy workload and human can be a distraction for her goals. well.. personally i want to share that, we are human.. we have voice, we have eyes, we have organs and senses to be used. 

When we have ideas we want to share it with someone who wants to hear us, When we are having problem we want the problem solved but not only using our brain with limited capacity, we can ask them to give us information or solution. Yes we can have it from friends, family and maybe vendor / consultant? but.. can you imagine if that person having a huge bonus for you? when its free and lovable? its whole package! 

it's not easy to find a life partner, agree :) but we are trying to be open minded, sometimes possibilities  bring us happiness. you never know that your neighbor also curious with your hobby or activity, maybe your colleagues, or High school friends on Facebook or IG?

Muslim said, pray and do the ikhtiar.. I believe that everyone tried with praying but maybe they haven't explore new places or new type of communication so they haven't met their soulmate. I'm sure that Life partner is not a burden but a solace :) they give us a chances to be a better human being, as long as we have logic and something to look for,, the almighty will give us the best solution to enjoy this life.